A guy meets a woman. He wants to attract her. Does he wax, groom himself, throw on some cologne and show up and say “Hey – let’s have sex”? Maybe. And sometimes it’s that easy. But if it’s not – is anyone surprised? Do we think it strange that he takes her out, pays attention to her, does all sorts of things that lead her to want to have sex with him? No – we don’t. But when he stops doing those things and she stops having sex, it’s not because he no longer does the stuff that’s attractive to her. It’s because she’s “withholding sex”. This is an actual question that I’m wondering about (as opposed to a statement of my opinion on the subject) When you say, DMN, that “There are some women who don’t really love sex so much, they see sex as a means to get affection and attention from men”, couldn’t it also be said that there are men who don’t love women so much, they use affection and attention to get sex from them? Then when the sex starts coming, it’s ok to stop with the attention and affection – but keep getting the sex? I wonder… And I won’t pretend that behaviour can’t be a turn off for both sexes: if a guy’s girlfriend or wife is a total bitch to him, I don’t think his desire for her doesn’t suffer – no matter how hot she is. That doesn’t make sex about “other stuff” – it just acknowledges that how we treat our partners can increase or decrease their desire for us. <p><a href="https://www.gadgetwinkeltje.nl/blog/lifestyle/polish-girls-the-pattern-of-empty-promises-and-boyfriend-excuses/">Polish Girls: The Pattern Of Empty Promises And Boyfriend Excuses</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.game-ads.de/blog/lifestyle/the-art-of-adaptive-dating-game/">The Art Of Adaptive Dating Game</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.game-starter.de/blog/lifestyle/how-to-pull-a-robbery/">How To Pull A Robbery</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.gameplein.com/blog/lifestyle/the-price-of-honest-self-disclosure/">The Price Of Honest Self-Disclosure</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.gameplek.nl/blog/lifestyle/5-new-acts-of-chivalry/">5 New Acts of Chivalry</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.gardameerforum.nl/blog/lifestyle/pbs-and-service-dating/">PBS And Service Dating</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.gaslichtgids.nl/blog/lifestyle/5-things-i-should-be-able-to-do-without-my-manhood-being-questioned/">5 Things I Should Be Able To Do Without My Manhood Being Questioned</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.gastenboekjes.nl/blog/lifestyle/five-other-ways-to-tell-i-really-like-her/">Five Other Ways To Tell I Really Like Her</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.geboorte-plaza.nl/blog/lifestyle/the-compliment-translator/">The Compliment Translator</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.geefvoorleven.nl/blog/lifestyle/a-new-form-of-waiting-building-chemistry-over-time/">A New Form of Waiting</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.geheimgeld.nl/blog/lifestyle/so-when-are-we-taking-me-out/">So When Are We Taking Me Out?</a></p>