Kay Says: August 3rd, 2011 at 9:51 pm I feel like the poster described what has been on my mind for several months. I am wondering what happened to the supposedly high libido of my current boyfriend of nearly a year. I am 33, he is 39. He has this supercharged sexual history and lately his drive is kaput. I initiate play and flirt to no avail. Frustrating. Have opened up dialogue several times, asking if he is lacking sexual interest in me, what can i / we do different or better – he says he feels unfit (I think he is hot and often tell him so) and just not overly affectionate. I am the one who works 50+ hours/week while he is home all day (not taking care of kids, really not doing much of anything). No excuses there. I think I am just unmatched in my sexual desires. Sex is not just about getting off, it’s choosing to be intimate with your lover over choosing to watch crappy tv or a movie. I feel unconnected and less desired if I am not being administered to regularly. It sounds a bit codependent I know, but before, during, and after sex is o e very important way I “check in” with my partner and our relationship. It’s closeness and for me, when all systems are go it is frustrating to be rebuffed or pushed aside for another “recreational” activity. Like or Dislike: Thumb up 5 Thumb down 0 Reply <p><a href="https://www.gadgetwinkeltje.nl/blog/lifestyle/polish-girls-the-pattern-of-empty-promises-and-boyfriend-excuses/">Polish Girls: The Pattern Of Empty Promises And Boyfriend Excuses</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.game-ads.de/blog/lifestyle/the-art-of-adaptive-dating-game/">The Art Of Adaptive Dating Game</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.game-starter.de/blog/lifestyle/how-to-pull-a-robbery/">How To Pull A Robbery</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.gameplein.com/blog/lifestyle/the-price-of-honest-self-disclosure/">The Price Of Honest Self-Disclosure</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.gameplek.nl/blog/lifestyle/5-new-acts-of-chivalry/">5 New Acts of Chivalry</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.gardameerforum.nl/blog/lifestyle/pbs-and-service-dating/">PBS And Service Dating</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.gaslichtgids.nl/blog/lifestyle/5-things-i-should-be-able-to-do-without-my-manhood-being-questioned/">5 Things I Should Be Able To Do Without My Manhood Being Questioned</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.gastenboekjes.nl/blog/lifestyle/five-other-ways-to-tell-i-really-like-her/">Five Other Ways To Tell I Really Like Her</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.geboorte-plaza.nl/blog/lifestyle/the-compliment-translator/">The Compliment Translator</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.geefvoorleven.nl/blog/lifestyle/a-new-form-of-waiting-building-chemistry-over-time/">A New Form of Waiting</a></p> <p><a href="https://www.geheimgeld.nl/blog/lifestyle/so-when-are-we-taking-me-out/">So When Are We Taking Me Out?</a></p>